Here are two recent conversations I have had over text messaging with two of my young women. I admit that I was a little snotty in the first conversation. But, in my weak defense, I was tired and my swollen feet hurt, had just driven back from work in rainy rush hour traffic, was running behind, and was doing last minute grocery shopping for Young Women in Excellence, which I knew no young woman would thank me for anyway. And in my strong defense, this girl turned from a sweet Beehive to a snotty, disrespectful Mia Maid. (By the way, it's been almost two weeks and she's still mad at me.)
D: So, there is definitely no one here at the church and I'm waiting here by myself.
Me: And? What's your point?
D: Someone is supposed to be here. Should I just leave?
Me: The leaders said we would be there by at 6:45. Do what you want.
D: Fine.
Another one (verbatim), in regards to using the rest of the Young Women budget before the end of the year:
S: I have a great idea for a money-spending YW activity :-)
(Break: The idea was for the girls to think of things we could supply the closet with that we could use next year, such as items to make jewelry or tie-dye shirts for camp.)
Me: What's that?
S: OK, my sis works at a nail salon and we could all go and get mani-pedi's and eyebrow waxes and facials on newyear's eve and then go back to heidi's and get ready, then go to the dance together :-) the ppl that coudn't buy the mani-pedi's would b the area of money spending XD what do u think???
Me: Sounds fun but I will be in the hospital or home with a new baby and I'm sure the other leaders have plans for the evening. If we had more time left in the year maybe we could do something like that but the Bishop is planning a fun activity. Do you have any ideas of things we can put in the closet for future use?
S: Um...No. :-(
If it's true that I won't be released until I love my calling, then I have a sinking feeling that I will be text messaging the likes of these girls for the rest of my life.